Mom is always thinking too much.
Now she complains that I invited dad & her siblings to Sheyenne 1-month old party... and said that I never visited her nephew & niece babies & return them with gifts.
The problem is, I am not close to my cousins. I don't even have their numbers. I don't know of their recent updates. My mom herself didn't even give them red packet or gift when they had their babies. And now she demands that I should go visit my uncle, her brother, and return him $60! WTF!
I said, why $60? She said cause he given you $20 and a bottle of liquor. I can't really remember what the liquor is, I think it's VSOP. It's a black bottle and looked used. And even the $20 is in a very old red packet too... btw, does my uncle expect me to start drinking & go partying after my baby turns 1-month old? silly!
And now she say, her youngest sister is scolding about somebody. She thinks she's referring to me. She thinks she is scolding about me inviting them to Sheyenne's 1-month and took their gifts and did not do the same to my uncle's children.
Excuse me. I didn't even know about the newborns!
Mom always make it in such a way that we don't owe our relatives, and they don't owe us anything too. Because of such thinking of hers, we are very distant from all our relatives.
Now brother has just shifted to his new place, and thinking of inviting the relatives. Mom strongly opposed to it. I dunno why she always behaves this way... She likes to control everything. And thinks too much too!
When Sheyenne was celebrating her 1-month old, mom even needs to be so calculative to the extent of asking me if parking is free at my place on Sunday. I asked if parking is not free, does it mean that she is not coming? She got angry over it. I think I should be the one getting angry!!! Imagine the grandma is calculating about parking fee instead of thinking of visiting her grandchild!!! Does $1 or $2 means so much to her?
From the day Sheyenne is born, until she is 10 months old. Mom has only visited me thrice. Once at the hospital, once before Sheyenne is 1-month old, and once when Sheyenne celebrates her 1-month old. Then she only reappear when Sheyenne is 10 months old.
And after the USA trip, she just went missing and reluctant to come & help me with Sheyenne. My only choice was to send Sheyenne to a child care. And almost everyday, mom will call me to pick up Sheyenne earlier. What have I done to make her think that I am idling everyday? If she really cares for Sheyenne, why did she forsake her?
Is that really MY MOM?
