So called good friend gave a bag of clothes (sample pieces) for shyanne. She can never get her name right. Despite several attempts to correct her. She can't even get MY name right, still address me as Gym.
After sending her the 1st sms reply to thank her for the clothes, and told her i like a few of them. She got hysterical and accused me of taking her friendship for granted. Then she mentioned about not regarding one of her secondary school friend not as her friend anymore, I simply replied 'Friendship are not easy to maintain, it takes two to clap.' And she gets more hysterical and start more accusation. And claimed that she is more experienced and much better than me to maintain friendship. Oh yeah, MY ASS!
In my earlier sms, I told her to feel free to come my place, and ended the sms with a 'You are welcome'. Apparently, she misinterpreted my message and keep asking why I told her 'You are welcome' when I should have said "Thank you'. I dunno why she has to be so jumpy about my 'You are welcome' message.
Some of her sms goes like this:
1) Thanks for your concern now asking me regarding my job loss. The 4k that I still owe u, I remember. Will return u when i am better off but i am not now. These samples solely for the kids benefits. You know what. I aldy not considered lynn as my friend anymore. I dont hurt my friend and i also dont like people taking my friendship or good intention for granted.
2) Agree. If one party does its part but the other took it for granted or even makes friend feel small, then it is smeared. True friendship can sustain trails of life no matter what and also true colors of friendship can still surface after many years of trails in life.
3) I left behind a past that someone else purposely created for me to destroy me. one that I will have to live with as a mystery forever. The last thing I need is to jeopardise friendship i cherish for years. But my instinct tells me when its time to assess it when things feel not right. I dont have to tell you the details but i have a hunch u are saying i didnt do my part as a friend. I also sense some hostility here. What's all these craps about?
I had enough of these smses.... this is a test to my endurance. A good friend will not spout such nonsense and cause me hurt like that.
She even called another friend and spouted more nonsense. Such as I am a teacher, why didn't I know that after receiving things from people, I should say 'Thank You', instead of 'You're welcomed.' I think she is really over her head. CRAZY!!! Btw, 1st, I am a computer trainer, not a english teacher, 2nd, a true good friend will not criticized about your job & hint that you're not doing your job well. It's an insult to me for her to make such a remark.
I feel like returning the whole bagful of shit & the other stuff that she had passed to me for Sheyenne. To be on the kuai-lan side, I didn't tell her to pick up the samples for Sheyenne. Furthermore, she do it on her own free will and should not expect that receivers will return with a 'THANK YOU.' (although I think I did tell her Thank You.) WHAT does she expect? She wants me to kneel down & kiss her on her feet?
By lending her 5k when I myself was jobless & pregnant & not from a rich environment is something very great that I think have done for her. On top of that, I've never asked her when she wants to return to me. When she loan it from me in Year 2002, she promised to return half in 3 months time, the remaining in another 3 months time. I get 1k in Year 2005, and the other 80% is still no where to be found.
Since young, I've been tolerating her nonsense. She is so damn hysterical that she can spoil your day if you hit on her nerves accidentally. Or even, if you didn't do anything to her. :-(
I am really pissed with her. I really thought of erasing this person from my memory & contact list.
A friend will not treat you like this.
