Freedom !!!

Hubby's gone for reservist for the past few days. How do I feel? FREEDOM! Yell it like M-whatever Gibson in that I-forgot-the-name-of-the-movie. *update* Braveheart!

While he is away, I am going to custom make some furniture at home. I hope he will not scream at me when he return... *scared scared*

Went to watch the movie 'I Not Stupid 2' last friday. Some plots in the movie is very real, like something that will happen to most of us in our lifetime. Such as, we always forgot to be more encouraging towards our kids... or even family members... Most of us, will pass negative remarks, instead of being more positive... :-(

Last night I cut 2 pears & a peach. Went away for a while & left the fruits with hubby. When I appear in 5 mins time, what's left is only 1/4 peach & 3/4 pear. I ask hubby, so that's 1/4 peach is for me & sheyenne? And you took 3/4 of it!?! He apologised & said he feels bad... I dunno if he really feel that way... But somehow, I find that, he has taken me for granted... in many ways...

He's a rather lucky man. A man that doesn't have to worry much about household expenses, which can cost a bomb.

Well, I just wish that he won't yell at me for making 2 cupboards. He always tell me to stop my buying. But... when a kid is growing up, they need different things... Now is year 2006, not 1976.

Anyway, I got sick of he and his mom's comments on me all the time. My ma in law likes to accuse me of buying toys for Sheyenne. But, the fact is, most of the toys is bought by friends. E.g., the cooking set & train is bought by MeiQing, the pianos are bought by Monica, the drawing board is by Julie, etc. I didn't really buy all the toys for her, but I don't think I need to inform her whenever someone buy/pass me a toy!

On top of all these, whenever I wore the same shirt as Sheyenne (seen on the left), my ma in law will pass a remark & commented in hokkien that I am 'hiao'! Which means vain. But I am already someone who is hardly vain. I don't even wear makeup except a lipstick if I am working. I have never even dye/highlight my hair. I didn't even wear nail colour all the time... and I am usually in simple clothes... I don't know what is HER definition of vain. But I get very offended by that remark. Irritated!!! What's wrong with me wearing the same clothes as my daughter!!! She can jolly well do the same if she wants to!!! ANGRY ANGRY ANGRY !!!